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Two items. First: there’s a boy who needs to be paddled and fucked in the worst way.  If I can’t take his place, I volunteer to fetch the toys and lube him and hold his arms and whisper semi-comforting things in his ear.  Just let me watch.  Oooboy. Second: I’m annoyed by the reaction LABS describes below.  It’s not that everyone should love everyone else’s kinks, obviously.  And I think it’s completely understandable for people to say “Well, I think pirates are sexy, but I hate penguins.”  Or whatever. But I often get a sense that for some chunk of kinky men (and some smaller chunk of kinky women) there’s a desire to pretend that the M/f dynamic is universal, the only “real” kind of BDSM.  I think that’s why there’s so much porn about dommes getting the tables turned on them by big bad boys.  (And why dominatrices wear collars and fetish gear, while straight male dominants usually don’t).  And why people hit ‘unfollow’ when they see an image like this one.   likeabikeseat: I lost 10 followers the last time I posted a submissive boy waiting to be fucked.  I presume the rest of you can handle this…

Two items.

First: there’s a boy who needs to be paddled and fucked in the worst way.  If I can’t take his place, I volunteer to fetch the toys and lube him and hold his arms and whisper semi-comforting things in his ear.  Just let me watch.  Oooboy.

Second: I’m annoyed by the reaction LABS describes below.  It’s not that everyone should love everyone else’s kinks, obviously.  And I think it’s completely understandable for people to say “Well, I think pirates are sexy, but I hate penguins.”  Or whatever.

But I often get a sense that for some chunk of kinky men (and some smaller chunk of kinky women) there’s a desire to pretend that the M/f dynamic is universal, the only “real” kind of BDSM.  I think that’s why there’s so much porn about dommes getting the tables turned on them by big bad boys.  (And why dominatrices wear collars and fetish gear, while straight male dominants usually don’t).  And why people hit ‘unfollow’ when they see an image like this one.  

likeabikeseat:

I lost 10 followers the last time I posted a submissive boy waiting to be fucked.  I presume the rest of you can handle this…

14 August 2010 • reblog: likeabikeseat