A few more “pan submission” images, including this one, which KG sent me.
A couple punished together.
(via hausofcarolyn)
Without getting tooooo theoretical, I think the answer lies in the way people are apt to squick out over a BDSM image (or story). There are lots of ways to engage with the characters in an image, but a common source of anxiety/squick/disgust/insecurity is to say: oooo, I would not want to be him / her, get me out of this fantasy.
In BDSM, that gets more intense around with images of bottoms. You can see a top doing something you wouldn’t be into, but you say “well, if that was me I wouldn’t be doing that.” That’s harder to say for an image of a bottom, because they ostensibly aren’t in control of what’s going on.
Another very easy dodge is to say: well, that looks unpleasant, but it’s happening to a girl/boy, and I’m not one of those, so everything’s cool. I think this response is sexist and weirdly insecure, but I’m guessing it’s real enough to have a big impact on the way people arrange their fantasies.
TLDR: It’s hard to find pan-sub images because people are afraid of scaring off the gender essentialists.
Oh, now that’s interesting!
She would be completely at his mercy even without the ropes and the gag. So what is she now?
(Source: bondageblowjobs, via boys-dont-cum)
There are a number of images where my initial impression is to see a large size discrepancy, but then I think maybe it’s a trick of the staging, perspective, etc.
I am definitely in the self-censorship corner of the ring. I have dozens of images that fit neatly into various themes, or just seemed very sexy or very compelling, which I haven’t posted because of the models’ identity groups.
For instance, I hardly ever post anything featuring transsexual models, like Kimberly Kills, above, costarring with a lovely redwood. In fact, this image is unusual in trans porn in that it’s top-only. If we could see her penis, I probably would not have posted it…but that’s absurd, right?
Here’s another image that is more typical femsub, especially in some of the little details, like the way the guys aren’t dressed in leather chaps or whatever, they’re just guys.
He’s going to need a serious neck massage after the ten of them are through.
I don’t get it, either. Maybe it’s hard for the majority to imagine that we would find male submission as sexy as female?
Usually, when I check out gay porn, I ask where my favorite genres went. If I want to watch a woman get smacked around by a couple of guys who use her like a piece of meat, I can find five thousand flicks that cover that. If I want to see a guy getting used that way (and ohmigod how I always do), there’s like FIVE.
Where’s my goddamned male exploitation porn, Tumblr?!

This was the first mirror picture I ran into, and it sort of typifies a particular narrative. She’s been put here to look at her own submission.