Sometimes I read or story or see an image that’s a little past the horizon of my own experience as a sub, and I get this vicarious sulk on. It isn’t the crazy stuff. If someone’s getting their nipples branded during the gangbang, I’m like: sure, whatever. But I can easily imagine a bigger butt plug, or a longer whipping, and those things make me glum. A good, hungry, satisfying sort of glum.